Gain Control Over Your Ejaculation And Last Longer In Bed
When a man fails to stop himself from ejaculating, he is not giving both himself and his partner enough sexual pleasure. Alright, enough of the sad news, here is the good news for ALL men with or without the trouble of premature ejaculation. There are some powerful, yet simple techniques which you can learn to develop or obtain more or even total control over your ejaculation.
A piece of scientific fact, studies had shown that controlling over ejaculation is in fact, not difficult to achieve. If you have always had the problem of premature ejaculation, you might raise suspicion over the statement, however, it is true. Any man that is determined enough can stop premature ejaculation. The issue is, many men had put not only little time, but also little effort into controlling their ejaculation.
The following are some strategies that you can use to control your ejaculation:
1. Masturbating with a woman enjoying the intercourse instead of you enjoying it. Try to last for at least 15mins. Keep bringing yourself close to the point of no return but not ejaculate. Pause for a while until you feel you can go again. Do this for at least 15mins.
2. If you are having a fun session and find yourself going to ejaculate, stop and squeeze the point that is right below the head of your penis. This action will push the blood out of the penis and momentarily represses your ejaculation.
3. Try to press the end of your penis onto your partners clitoral head. Linger around her vaginal entrance which is also her G spot is. So, when you are having an intercourse, focus on small, shallow movements that penetrate the first two to three inches of your partners vagina.
4. Try to get your partner to obtain her orgasm first. You can do this either through the intercourse or even using your fingers. This is basically to reduce your psychological anxiety which is proven to be the lead cause for premature ejaculation. Therefore, eliminating the psychological anxiety is the main objective.
5. Usually, men will last longer the second round, therefore, instead of dozing off or leaving your partner; you should continue to arouse her (even after you ejaculate the first time) by kissing or fingering her until you are ready for a second round. This will definitely increase your partners satisfaction. Another way is to masturbate before going for the sexual intercourse.
6. Let your partner be on the top. Some men do not like this as they cannot bypass their ego. However, if your partner is on the top, your penis is less stimulated, if coupled by her going slowly (either you ask or she just goes slowly), you can last longer than usual. Going for long and fast thrusting is very stressful and difficult to control for men.
7. The ultimate method is for you to STOP thinking about your own orgasm. Your brain will be triggering your orgasm anyway since you are having sex, but, if you put more attention and more focus to it, your brain make your ejaculation come faster. Therefore, what you should focus on, is what is happening to her by the second, like her breathing, actions, even her silky legs. As long as you remove your thoughts on your own orgasm.
The above mentioned methods will most likely make you last much longer than usual. However, the downside is that you need time, effort and lots of discipline to learn it, let alone to master it. However, you do not need to spend lots of time and effort into it. I mean, who would want to spend a few months to train before enjoying the sex that they want.
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